The topic of relationships gets top billing in this week's two book selections, with high recommendations for both. I can't say enough good things about either.
The first is for those in the dating stage. Relationship building is treated with humor, insight, and practical advice in Base Hits and Home Runs: What Women Wish Guys Knew (Cedar Fort Publishing 2015, 276 pages in soft cover, $18.99). The woman speaking from experience here is Trina Boice, who enlists sports metaphors and the aid of her twenty-something son, "Coach Cooper," in rallying eligible young LDS bachelors toward more meaningful relationships with the opposite sex.
The topics are on-target as the book moves from simply playing ball to the minor leagues and then the majors. How to flirt, dress, compliment, plan dates, listen, score points with her friends, and work up to the first kiss are all covered, along with crucial aspects such as defining the relationship and continuing courtship after marriage and even after children. Boice's explanations (translations?) of what women are thinking in various situations and stages of a relationship could be a major revelation to male readers.
Interesting stats, assignments to put the principles into practice, and quotes from sports figures round out the chapters. The author is careful to reference scriptures, quotes, and research without detracting from the lively conversation. For less than 20 bucks, this book is a great investment for any young man who wants to get serious about finding--and being--"the one."
More serious in tone is Love is a Choice (Deseret Book 2015, 273 pages in hard cover, $24.99). Elder Lynn G. Robbins of the Presidency of the Seventy approaches the topic of maintaining relationships through modeling them on principles of the gospel and attributes of the Savior.
In the first part, "Choosing Love," he speaks of "growing in love" as opposed to the more temporary "falling in love" and teaches about the Lord's way as opposed to "the wrong way," both obvious and less so. Elder Robbins presents it all in the context of families and the eternal perspective. Scriptures and gospel-centered explanations address couples at all stages, from newlyweds to parents and eventually empty-nesters.
He goes into depth in chapters on agency and love in marriage, accepting the responsibility to repent and forgive that comes with agency, following the Savior's example and understanding how his Atonement can strengthen marriage and family, the interconnectedness of love and self-reliance, respecting children's agency, and choosinghappiness.
Part II offers additional "Resources for Practicing Great Choices," with a look at financial unity in "One Heart, Mind, and Bank Account" and helps for family home evening in another chapter. Some 60 pages of appendix are devoted to "Christlike Virtues" which could individually be studied and discussed in relation to their role in creating strong, loving relationships.
Both books are solid resources for readers who want to improve their relationships by improving themselves.
Copyright © 2015 by Laurie Williams Sowby
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Wednesday, August 12, 2015
Fantastic advice for single guys
Thursday, May 21, 2015
News today in the publishing world
One of my publishers creates this fantastic video series about what's happening in the book world. This week, the graphic designer/tech guru of the company debuts as the presenter. Nice job Mario Hernandez!
What's in the news: Google mobile searches now outpace online searches, Amazon creates a new YA Book Club, and ebooks are now available on JetBlue flights!
What's in the news: Google mobile searches now outpace online searches, Amazon creates a new YA Book Club, and ebooks are now available on JetBlue flights!
Wednesday, May 13, 2015
Indie news this week May 2015
One of my publishers just posted this informative video about the latest scoop in the Indie book publishing world:
Saturday, November 15, 2014
What's The Latest Scoop in the Publishing World?
Here's the latest video from one of my book publishers, talking about what's the latest scoop in the world of books, writers, and readers!
The books I've published with Big World Network are:
* How to Stay UP in a DOWN Economy
* A Gift of Love
* Climbing Family Trees
Happy reading!
Trina Boice
The books I've published with Big World Network are:
* How to Stay UP in a DOWN Economy
* A Gift of Love
* Climbing Family Trees
Happy reading!
Trina Boice
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Tuesday, July 1, 2014
How To Train Your Dragon 2 success turns movie-goers into readers
Here's another shout-out to a book that made it big at the box office!
PG, 1 hour 45 minutes
Grade: A-
In a Nutshell: Everyone in the family will enjoy this
adorable DreamWorks sequel by Dean DeBlois.
It impresses with FANTASTIC textures and surfaces: fur, leather, hair,
metal, wrinkles on skin, dragon scales, tears, chin hairs, etc. It’s simply amazing how far animation has
come. I didn’t even see it in 3D!
The narrator begins “With Vikings on the backs of dragons,
the world just got a whole lot bigger.” And
so it is. A good sequel builds upon the
solid foundation of its original movie, adding new layers and fun
surprises. This movie does just
that. The audience has grown up since
the 2010 original, and this sequel has too, developing a rich story that
provides substance to the silliness.
Uplifting theme: There is an environmental message about
caring for animals against evil human predators. Just so you know, no dragons were harmed in
the making of this film. Family and forgiveness are also addressed, as well as
courage and love.
Things I liked:
- There are
several running gags that weave throughout the movie. One features Ruffnut, the Viking twin sister of
Tuffnut, as she falls in love with Erit, a new Viking with bulging biceps. She's not the least bit feminine and is always fighting with her twin brother, so to see her swoon is unexpected and delightful. She is voiced by the talented Kristen Wiig. T.J. Miller voices her twin brother, who
also plays the comic relief in the newest installment in the Transformers
movie franchise, Transformers: Age of Extinction
.
- Another running gag features adorable sheep who are used for a dragon version of Harry Potter’s Quidditch. Hilarious.
- I love movies that take time to provide random and humorous details. Icicles on mustaches. Freckles. Beards braided with leather bows.
- I want a pair of Astrid’s cute, fuzzy boots.
- The many air scenes will seriously make you want to fly.
- “The Dancing and the Dreaming” song with lyrics by Shane MacGowan and music by Jon Thor Birgisson and John Powell is very sweet and feels like a believable song of Viking ancestry.
- I adore Cate Blanchett. Other voice talents in the film are Jay Baruchel, Gerard Butler, America Ferrera, Jonah Hill, Craig Ferguson, and Kit Harington.
- Sure, the flick is fairly predictable, but it's still a fun ride.
Things I didn’t like:
- Who names their baby “Hiccup”? A Viking, I guess.
- SPOILER ALERT: As awesome as dragons are, I would never leave my baby boy to go live with dragons instead.
- Drago. Really? They couldn’t think of a more creative name?
Did you know?
- Directors Chris Sanders and Dean DeBlois were not the original directors, but were later hired to create a movie that would appeal to the rug rats AND their parents.
- Did you know these “Dragon” movies were inspired by a 2003 novel? Astrid (played by America Ferrara) is a character created just for the movie, as she wasn’t even in the original novel.
- The character voice of “Toothless” was created by mixing sounds from horses, elephants, tigers, and even the voice of the Sound Designer, Randy Thom.
- A lot of the scenery is based on real places in Iceland and the Pacific Coast.
Interesting lines:
- “Men who kill without reason cannot be reasoned with.” - Stoick
- “You have the heart of a chief and the soul of a dragon.” - Valka
Funny lines:
- “Soil my britches!” - Erit
- “Me likey!” – Ruffnut when she sees Erit for the first time.
- Ruffnut says “Erit was the man of my dreams.” Gobber says “But Baby, I grew facial hair for you!”
- Astrid: “That’s your mother?”
Hiccup: “Now you know where I get
my dramatic flair!”
Tips for
parents: There is some fighting and
a few scary dragons, but otherwise, even young children should enjoy watching
this film.
For your family's collection:Thursday, May 29, 2014
Amazing things you can do with paper
Book lovers love books. (Such an insightful comment, eh?)
Whether it's on paper or on a Kindle reader, readers are inspired by the written word. So many of us are slowly converting our reading habits to various digital versions, but the most hard-core reader would probably admit that there is something special about PAPER. That feeling you get while curled up with a good book in hands is hard to compete with.
Even for a book editor and designer, Li Hongbo has an unusual attachment to paper. “I love it and collect it,” he says. He also does increasingly audacious experiments with it. Check out his most recent art show where he turns regular paper into amazing, moving pieces of art!

The installation Paper (2010) began when Li Hongbo bought one of the “honeycomb” paper balls used for festive decorations in China and took it apart to see how it was made. “I realized it’s really quite simple,” he says. “Yet the flexibility in terms of shape and properties is amazing.”
His take on this craft tradition is indeed amazing, and it is made entirely of common paper. With the help of an assistant, Li Hongbo stuck more than 30,000 sheets together with carefully placed stripes of glue to form what look like two large blocks of balsa wood. Using an electric saw, he carved these stacks into identical human figures. One he leaves intact, except for a toppled head; the other is stretched out like a vast accordion, its torso and limbs looping around the gallery space like a gigantic Slinky toy.
Many visitors find it hard to believe that it ever looked anything like its upright twin. The artist hopes the work will awaken viewers to what captivates his own imagination: “the endless possibilities of paper.”
Whether it's on paper or on a Kindle reader, readers are inspired by the written word. So many of us are slowly converting our reading habits to various digital versions, but the most hard-core reader would probably admit that there is something special about PAPER. That feeling you get while curled up with a good book in hands is hard to compete with.
Even for a book editor and designer, Li Hongbo has an unusual attachment to paper. “I love it and collect it,” he says. He also does increasingly audacious experiments with it. Check out his most recent art show where he turns regular paper into amazing, moving pieces of art!

The installation Paper (2010) began when Li Hongbo bought one of the “honeycomb” paper balls used for festive decorations in China and took it apart to see how it was made. “I realized it’s really quite simple,” he says. “Yet the flexibility in terms of shape and properties is amazing.”
His take on this craft tradition is indeed amazing, and it is made entirely of common paper. With the help of an assistant, Li Hongbo stuck more than 30,000 sheets together with carefully placed stripes of glue to form what look like two large blocks of balsa wood. Using an electric saw, he carved these stacks into identical human figures. One he leaves intact, except for a toppled head; the other is stretched out like a vast accordion, its torso and limbs looping around the gallery space like a gigantic Slinky toy.
Many visitors find it hard to believe that it ever looked anything like its upright twin. The artist hopes the work will awaken viewers to what captivates his own imagination: “the endless possibilities of paper.”
Monday, March 24, 2014
Fay Kingler introduces two new books for women and daughters
A terrific writer and friend of mine, Fay Klingler, has not one...but two books hitting store shelves and I wanted to let you know about them!
Kay is a true artist at heart, blending her colorful imagination with her passion for writing. Over the years she has mixed her talents as a commercial art instructor, technical writer, editor, and project leader for several different corporations.

Kay has used her artwork and inspiring words to craft two beautiful books that will lift your soul. We Are Strong! Mothers and Daughters Stand Together
I Am Strong! I Am Strong! I Am Smart!
If you have a daughter, you'll enjoy these two sweet books that you can share with her as you develop Christ-like qualities of love and faith!
Wednesday, March 5, 2014
Some of the worst book covers. Ever.
As an author, I stress out about the cover of my books before they come out. After all, book buyers actually DO read a book by its cover. Check out some of these truly awful covers for a good laugh and possibly, for some inspiration on YOUR book!














Monday, July 9, 2012
Chicken Soup Books Are Good For the Soul
The Chicken Soup book franchise has been hugely successful over the past years. If you've never read one of their books, you really are missing out on a soulful experience. If you're a writer or someone who has had an inspiring experience that could be shared with others, you can submit your stories at:
http://www.chickensoup.com/form.asp?cid=submit_story
I tried submitting an idea for a great book I thought they should write, but they're not accepting that kind of proposal. They are, however, actively looking for contributors for the following books:
20th Anniversary Reader's Choice
To celebrate our twenty-year anniversary next summer, we are planning a book in which contributors tell us how a Chicken Soup for the Soul story changed their lives. If a Chicken Soup for the Soul story made a big difference to you, tell us the name of the story and the book in which it appeared, and then write us a new Chicken Soup for the Soul story all about how the old story helped you. We'll publish the stories in pairs -- the old ones and the new ones. The deadline for story submissions is November 30, 2012.
Angels Among Us
We are looking for stories from people who believe that they have encountered or been helped by angels. How did your angel manifest himself or herself? How did your angel help you or someone you know? Please do not send stories about people who are "angels" because they do nice things, and also please do not submit eulogies where you say that your loved one is now an angel. The deadline date for story and poem submissions is July 31, 2012.
Great Advice for Making Changes in Your Life
Have you ever read a Chicken Soup for the Soul story that had a wonderful nugget of advice in it that made a difference in your life? We are looking for stories that contain great pieces of advice, whether they are little things that improve our everyday lives, or major epiphanies that can change a life completely. Topics we will cover include advice related to work and personal relationships, marriage, parenting, health and fitness, finances, constructive criticism, taking chances, and following your passion. The deadline date for story and poem submissions is August 31, 2012.
Independent Woman
Whether you are single or married, widowed, or divorced, you are in charge of your life and the lives of many other people. Tell us your story about running your independent life, achieving independence, and being a complete person. We are referring to all kinds of independence, not just financial or emotional. Share your story of empowerment and independence to help women of all ages feel stronger, more capable, and more confident. The deadline date for story and poem submissions is July 31, 2012
Raising Kids on the Spectrum
If you are the parent of a child with autism or Asperger's, we invite you to share your story about raising your child - the ups and downs, the effect on your family, your child's special attributes and talents, and the lighter moments too. You may use a "pen name" on your story. These stories will provide advice, comfort and insight to other parents in the same situation. The deadline date for story and poem submissions is September 30, 2012.
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